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Re: Am I Selfish?

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Brigan, I don't see what you're getting at, I'm pretty sure I read that topic quite a while ago but I don't intend on re-readiing it just because you posted the link.

Fit Man, that still hardly makes him a disgrace to humanity, his hatred that he displays on the forum hasn't harmed anyone in the real world.
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Re: Am I Selfish?

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Fat Shit: I thought you added me as a "foe". Why are you still reading and responding to my posts? Fucking hypocrite.

Badreligion: So are you saying that the people who post on Stormfront aren't disgraces to humanity, because the things they post do not affect the real world? Great logic.
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[b][color=#FF00FF]Fit Shit[/color][/b] wrote:Buzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!
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Oh damn! There's that little fly again!!!

I guess I'm always going to need to keep this flyswatter handy at all times.

KA-SPLAT!!!

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Got ya!!!
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Re: Am I Selfish?

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In the cacophony of insults and name-calling that has ensued since Fit Man started posting in this forum, an interesting fact seems to have been overlooked; and that is, he's in agreement with us on a number of issues, which means that he is a far cry from the likes of Samdaman :x .
1) He does recognize that the sports culture has some problems.
2) He does not believe that sports build moral character and therefore admits that some school athletes are jerks (a fact that, incidentally, the sports media is inclined to ignore). By the way, I do believe that the right sort of coaching (of the sort advocated by Joe Ehrmann and others) does build character and that many coaches fail in that regard.
3) He is against bullying by individual athletes or anyone else.
4) He is against mandatory P.E. He recognizes that forcing nonathletic kids to participate in sports is counterproductive, if not cruel. (Of course, I do recognize that it is cruel.)

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Fat Man, do you realize when you tell someone you wish he would die that you sound just like a little boy? This is the sort of talk one would expect to find among ill-mannered kids in elementary school. Unless I'm mistaken, I understand you'll turn 60 in September. This sort of talk is undignified for middle-aged men. You should act your age.

Your attitude of "tit for tat" is wrong; it's uncivilized. Did you know that maintaining a victim mentality can be quite destructive? During the civil war in the former Yugoslavia, Elie Wiesel met with Serb leaders in Belgrade, appealing to them to stop committing atrocities against the Croats and the Bosnian Muslims. Serbs took him to a holocaust museum of their own, which documented atrocities that were committed against the Serbs during World War II by the Croatian fascists. They told Wiesel that it was now their turn, that they were entitled to "get back" at the Croats and Bosnian Muslims for what had happened half a century before.

You must discard the victim mentality if you are ever to overcome your mental illness. That means you must find a way to look beyond yourself. Perhaps finding a way to do some sort of charitable work would be helpful.

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Fit Man, you regretfully got off to a bad start in your very first post. You personally attacked Fat Man without knowing all the facts, yet you have not apologized at least for not knowing that he was maimed at the age of 4. You still don't know all the facts about him. I think I've made it quite clear that I disagree with Fat Man's bad attitudes, but he suffered more abuse growing up than I did. I don't know how I would have turned out.

This forum is not my personal property. I didn't create this website. You and Fat Man have the same freedom of speech. As a moderator I'm only bound by the Forum Rules.

As far as the hateful comments are concerned, I strongly believe that people should be treated with respect. There is a Montana State football player named Andy Austin who once posted in this forum for a while. He was treated shamefully by some of the members. I strenuously objected at the time. Everyone has feelings and deserves to be treated with some respect. At least as much as possible.

On the other hand, sports are not threatened in any way in our society. Athletes in the most popular sports are not exactly a minority group in the same sense as blacks, Jews, and other such categories of people. To the contrary, growing up in a sports-saturated culture is frequently not easy for nonathletic boys, who sometimes are bullied simply for having no interest in sports. If a nonathletic teenage boy is bullied at his junior high or high school by several athletes, does anyone stick up for him? I dare say that many times the answer is "No." That certainly was true at Columbine before the 1999 massacre and, I dare say, is still true at many (if not most) high schools today. If a high-school girl or a university or college coed is sexually assaulted by a popular athlete, what support can she expect to receive? Do you honestly believe the scales of justice are balanced in such cases, or is it not true that the decks are stacked heavily in the athlete's favor?

I'd like you to honestly answer the following question, which I don't think you need to answer in this forum. For about a year or so before he was finally banned in 2007, there was a high-school football player who posted under the username of Samdaman and let the members know just how much he hated "nerds." In a message posted in the Guestbook, he said he had beaten up nerds at his school. So, this is my question for you, which you don't need to answer in this forum (if you so choose): Would you have called Samdaman "a disgrace to humanity," or would your response have been muted? I prefer to believe you would have reacted in the same way as you have towards Fat Man.

You see, Fat Man and Samdaman are mirror images of each other. Fat Man hates "jocks" and most sports fans; Samdaman hates "nerds." However, I must say that the Samdamans of this world seem to have a lot more power than the Fat Mans, which is not to say that I condone anyone's bad attitudes. Fat Man is capable of being rude to people (as, indeed, he has been at times) while Samdaman can beat guys up.

I could be way off base here, Fit Man; but I sense there might be an external source of anger that has been a factor in your exchanges with Fat Man. You seem to be more angry than you should be, at least in my opinion.
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Re: Am I Selfish?

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Fit Man wrote:Badreligion: So are you saying that the people who post on Stormfront aren't disgraces to humanity, because the things they post do not affect the real world? Great logic.
I'm not familiar with Stormfront, but if someone posts something on the Internet that harms no one, and they don't cause harm to anyone in real life, then I would not consider them a disgrace to humanity.
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Earl wrote:In the cacophony of insults and name-calling that has ensued since Fit Man started posting in this forum, an interesting fact seems to have been overlooked; and that is, he's in agreement with us on a number of issues, which means that he is a far cry from the likes of Samdaman :x .

1) He does recognize that the sports culture has some problems.
2) He does not believe that sports build moral character and therefore admits that some school athletes are jerks (a fact that, incidentally, the sports media is inclined to ignore). By the way, I do believe that the right sort of coaching (of the sort advocated by Joe Ehrmann and others) does build character and that many coaches fail in that regard.
3) He is against bullying by individual athletes or anyone else.
4) He is against mandatory P.E. He recognizes that forcing nonathletic kids to participate in sports is counterproductive, if not cruel. (Of course, I do recognize that it is cruel.)
Yeah, I know that!

But apparently, according to Fit Shit I'm a disgrace to humanity, so I guess that it was OK for me to be bullied around because I'm not perfect, I'm handicapped, and overweight, and I'm not good looking enough, or some shit like that.

For some odd reason, he has chosen to make an exception in my case.

He's a two-faced liar who talks out of both sides of his mouth.

Yeah, on the one hand, he says he's against mandatory P.E. yet he has devoted and entire topic to me titled:

Fat Man Needs to go, play sports, and get some damn exercise
http://www.sportssuck.org/phpbb2/viewto ... f=1&t=7777

That sounds pretty damn mandatory to me!

You say that He is against bullying by individual athletes or anyone else.

But he's made an exception in my case!

First, he comes in here, calling me a disgrace to humanity, passing judgement on me before knowing any of the facts, and when I tell him the facts, about my being physically handicapped due to a crippled up left knee which explains why I was no good at sports in school, and that I wasn't fat yet until after I was 13 years old, I get told that it's all irrelevant or just unrelated stuff.

So, he hates my guts, just because I get a disability check.

He hates fat people, and hates poor people, and he hates people who are physically handicapped.

I guess I'm just a white nigger to him!

So, it was Fit Shit who started this recent flame fest when he registered to be a member on these forums, just for the sole purpose of devoting an entire topic to me, so that he could he could attack me before knowing the facts about my situation.

He's such a two-faced liar that he can sing a duet by himself!

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So, I just thought of another nickname for him. JANUS a god in ancient Greek mythology who had two faces.

He's a fucking liar by the town clock!!!

And speaking of clocks . . . . .

I still say that he seriously deserves to get his clock cleaned real good!!!

He needs a really good hard ass kicking!

Yeah! He needs to get his ass kicked up between his ears! He needs to get his ass kicked so fucking hard, that he will have to take his hat off to shine his shoes, and he will have to stand on his hands to use the toilet!
HugeFanOfBadReligion wrote:Fit Man, that still hardly makes him a disgrace to humanity, his hatred that he displays on the forum hasn't harmed anyone in the real world.
Also, it's nothing compared to the hatred that has been displayed toward me in the real world.

I only said that I would like to knock Fit Shit's teeth out with my cane and that I wished something bad would happen to him that would render him crippled up for life. It would serve him right.

But I have had actual physical violence done to me.

Actually, a couple of my teachers and my PE caches were worse than the jocks in my school.

It's one thing to get bullied around in school by other kids, but it's another thing entirely when it comes from adults who should have known better.

I keep asking myself, if I ware a 5th grade teacher, and I had this one particular student in my class who's reading level was at the high school or adult level, what would I do to encourage him?

That's what I would be thinking if I were a teacher!

And please note:

Before anybody, like Fit Shit says some crap (which I won't know about since I have him on ignore unless I choose to click on "Display His Post" which I refuse to do for the time being) that I was expecting to get better treatment than the other students because of my more advanced reading level, I want to make clear that I was not expecting better treatment, but only to be treated equally.

Oh! But school athletes get better treatment, while students who excel academically get treated like shit!

Anyway . . . . .

If I were a fifth grade teacher who had this one particular student with his advanced reading level, I would encourage him, instead of putting him down.

I would not punch him in the stomach with a basketball if he weren't good at sports, and I would not deny him access to library books at a higher grade level, and I would never bash a kids head against a brick wall.

If I were a teacher, I would never do to any kid, what had been done to me.

No, instead, I would encourage that student in his interest in science, and I would even suggest to the principle that the kid be placed in a higher grade.

That's what I would have done!

BUT NNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

America back in the 1960s was on a physical fitness kick, after that scum-sucking President Kennedy said that Americans were out of shape and needed to go on 50 mile hikes, then all the PE coaches felt it was their patriotic duty to whip kids into shape, and humiliate them in the gymnasiums.

First Kennedy said America's goal was to send men to the moon and bring them safely back by the end of the decade.

Oh WOW! I though that was fantastic! I thought the schools would begin focusing more on science and math.

But then, some time later, Kennedy just had to shoot off his big mouth about Americans being out of shape and he had to shoot off his big mouth about the 50 mile hikes.

Then our schools forgot about the science and math and focused more on sports.

It's just too fucking bad that somebody didn't shoot that sorry-ass mother fucker, and blow his shit-for-brains out BEFORE he could shoot off his big mouth about fitness and the 50 mile hikes!

Well, of course we didn't need to educate our children!!!

We already had some Nazi rocket scientist named Arthur Rudolph working for NASA designing the Saturn V booster for Project Apollo.

Yeah! Some low-life sorry-ass Fascist Nazi scum-bag piece of human garbage (responsible for the deaths of over 12,000 war prisoners) got to work in a fascinating career helping NASA to build our moon rocket.

But, in the meantime . . . . . an innocent kid (myself) living up north in a small town in Minnesota and in the fifth grade, he was getting his head bashed against a concrete block wall by a teacher (all Gung Ho for sports) who didn't want him to read Astronomy books.

See what happens when we get some baby-fucking Catholic in the Whitehouse!!!

And then, back in the 1980s, America got fucked over again after Ronald Reagan, another low-life scum-sucking baby-fucking Catholic got elected President. Yeah, I remember seeing on the NEWS, right-wing Funny-mentalist Christard groups publicly burning books. It was all reminiscent of some old films I had seen of Nazi Germany when they were publicly burning books. The only difference between the old film clippings and the 1980's NEWS broadcasts was that the old film clippings of Nazi book burnings were in black & white while the 1980s NEWS videos of public book burnings were in living color!

And they were singing their Christard hymn as they gathered around the fires.

It was actually very frightening to watch. Back in the 1980s I had nightmares that woke me up from my sleep.

Fit Shit is just some punk kid and a bed wetting ignoramus still in diapers. He's never lived through the 1960s and through the 1980s as I have. He wasn't even born yet, so he doesn't know jack-shit!!!

It's the USA that is a disgrace to all humanity, that is, the people who run this country.

We have sacrificed the education of our children for the sake of sports, and some of us were human sacrifices on the alter of sports.

No, we have decided that's it's much cheaper to put up new basketball hoops and buy new football helmets than it is to equip a high school chemistry lab with new stuff.

Hell, we don't need to teach science! No, let's just teach our kids how to chase balls, and the ones who can't do sports, we'll just throw them out of school, throw them away like garbage.

Uh huh! That's the ticket!

We can always import well educated nerds and techno-geeks from overseas to keep our wheels turning and our lights on.

The only reason why the USA beat the former Soviet Union to the moon was because we had . . .

THE REICH STUFF!!!
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Here goes Fat Man playing the victim card again, even when you advised him that it's self-destructive. Guess it's just not possible to get through with him, is it?

And to answer your question: of course Sadman is a disgrace to humanity. He's a bully and thrives on picking upon others. And you're right that he and Fat Man have a lot in common. The only difference is that this Sadman character is probably aware that he's a bully and he's a douche. Fat Man, on the other hand, is so delusional that he believes everything he says and does is the right thing. He's got this God-like complex to him.

I'd also like to point out that the "scum sucking" President Kennedy was a DEMOCRAT!!! Ohhhh! So let's just call him a Democrapfuckshit or whatever, because Fat Man LOVES to make fun or Christians and Republicans. Fat Man can't even be consistent with his critiques, and this further shows his idiocy.

(Please note that I'm neither a registered republican nor am I Christian. I still think it's wrong to put nice labels on people like he does.)

Also, this president played a significant part in getting us onto the moon. For being somebody that loves astronomy so much, you' think Fat Man would give him the credit he deserves. So Fat Man is wrong, Kennedy cared greatly about science.

Badreligion: Stormfrong is a white supremacy website. They hate Jews and another "non-whites". If such a person were to only discuss their deep-rooted racist views on the internet and act "normal" out in the real world, they wouldn't be a disgrace to you?
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[b][color=#FF00FF]Fit Shit[/color][/b] wrote:Buzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!
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Damn! There's that pesky little shit-eating flay again!

KA-SPLAT!!!

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Got ya!!!

Next time I should get a spray can of RAID!!!
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Fat Man wrote:Look at me I'm Fat Man I'm a fat piece of shit. I say I'm not reading Fit Man's posts but I definitely am. I'm just useless and a fat bitter old man who's got nothing going for me in my life
Wow Fat Man, I agree with you!
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Also, Fat Man: you clearly don't know your ass from a hole in the ground when you call President Reagan "another low-life scum-sucking baby-fucking Catholic"

He wasn't Catholic. Get you facts straight if you're going to act all high and mighty. You have to be the most ignorant person I know when it comes to politics.

Sorry, last edit before I head out. This goes to Earl:

Earl, I apologize for acting too harshy. But I've lurked the forums before and have seen that Fat Man has never given anyone here an ounce of respect. So I decided to try to expose him for the hypocrite he is. You are a smart man and seem to be the only civil person on the forum, and I respect you for that. I feel that I can have a normal conversation with you regarding anything.
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[b][color=#FF00FF]Fit Shit[/color][/b] wrote:Buzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!
[b][color=#FF00FF]Fit Shit[/color][/b] wrote:Buzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!
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Got ya!!!

I serious hope, somebody beats the ever living daylights out of Fit Shit and rips off his head and shove it up his ass face first and pisses down his neck!
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Fit Man wrote:Badreligion: Stormfrong is a white supremacy website. They hate Jews and another "non-whites". If such a person were to only discuss their deep-rooted racist views on the internet and act "normal" out in the real world, they wouldn't be a disgrace to you?
I know someone will be likely to jump to conclusions when I post this and try to make it seem like I have opinions that I don't actually have, but whatever, I'll say it anyway. Let's say, hypothetically, that a person was tormented in school by a racial group because they were white, involving a lot of physical harm, and they later went on this Stormfront website discussing their hatred of that racial group, however they never did any harm to that racial group, or anyone for that matter, and their hatred only showed on the website. I would not consider this person a disgrace to humanity. Again, I know someone is going to assume I'm a racist because I said that, which is completely untrue, but let me say that this does not at all mean that I agree with this person's views. If I were to see what this person said about the racial group, I would be irritated by their opinions, however knowing where they came from, even if I wouldn't see their viewpoint as understandable, I wouldn't consider them a disgrace to humanity. I've disagreed with Fat Man on this forum numerous times, often in the defence of athletes on this forum, but I never would consider him a disgrace to humanity.
You are a smart man and seem to be the only civil person on the forum
Earl is definitely not the only civil person on this forum. There are, and at least have been, several members who were quite reasonable on this forum. Also, you are definitely not without your flaws. You assumed several things about me earlier which were extremely false, I wouldn't consider you a civil member of this forum. I may have called you an asshole a few times, but I haven't done any more to you than what you have done on this forum either. When you first posted on this site, you said several things about Fat Man which only an asshole would say. Sure, you can say that you only did that to show Fat Man what his posts are like, however I could just as easily say that I only ever insulted you because you insulted Fat Man.
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I know I'm going to sound like a big "fem" (but, hey, I still pump iron; so, I'm kinda macho :lol: ); but this exchange between Fat Man and Fit Man has reduced me to tears. (I'm not kidding.) I sense a lot of anger and hurt on the part of both you guys. Believe me, I'm not meaning to put either of you down whenever I make critical comments. (Fat Man, if I didn't love you as a friend, I wouldn't say a word.)

I may sound wishy-washy; but I understand Fat Man's point of view, and I understand Fit Man's point of view. Fat Man, if I had been your father, I would have given my right arm to get you to a better school; and I would have raised Cain about the teachers who mistreated you. Most of your misfortune stemmed from the fact that your homelife wasn't what it should have been; and that's a gross understatement, to be sure. (Forgive me.) Believe me, I understand your anger and rage over the injustices you suffered.

Fit Man, I certainly understand your point of view about hating any category of people. My parents taught me not to hate by their very example, even though they weren't members of my church today. I grew up under Jim Crow and witnessed mindless hatred directed against people simply because they were black. When Martin Luther King Jr. was assassinated in 1968 during the spring of my junior year in high school, I never saw so much glee in my life. I remember how sickened I was, even though I wasn't aware of the tragic history of race relations. Incidentally, when I was in high school, I thought all the football players (at least those who had heard of me) thought I was a wimp because I wasn't interested in sports. I never thought any of them would ever want to be a friend to me; yet today one of my best friends in real life is a former high-school football player (from another high school in another state) and a member of my congregation (one of our deacons). When I was in high school and throughout my twenties, I never thought any former player would appreciate me as a friend; but I was wrong.

I understand the anger both of you feel. Writing posts in a forum definitely has problems. Your inhibitions are lowered, and your differences are magnified. I've been quite angry online more than once. For example (and, yes, I know I've said this before), I started posting at http://able2know.org for the first time in the spring of 2009 in response to a topic one of their members had started about this website. Two of the other members (sports fans) were insulting the A2K member who had written the OP in support of this website in rather demeaning ways. They sounded just like bullies; so, when I started posting, I went in with all guns a-blazin' with a few cannons besides. I ended up apologizing to one of them for calling him "that jerk coach." Then months later in the same thread, the other one of the two insulting members touched off another flame war when he personally attacked i_like_1981, a formerly active member of this website who had also joined A2K after I did. I reacted hysterically and went on at length until I just got tired of it and apologized to that member in a PM. I'm not able to go back to that A2K thread and read the posts I submitted in those exchanges because there's just too much anger and hurt in them. The point is that it's easy to lose your temper online.

I feel distressed for both of you, Fat Man and Fit Man, because the anger doesn't go anywhere and leaves you feeling empty (if not also resentful of the other member for a long time). (At least that's how I ended up at A2K. I actually had to reinvent my online personality at that website.) I'm sorry this flaming war has been so personal. I like both of you guys, and I'm sorry you've had to go through this. Believe me, I can empathize with both of you. If we were now sitting in the same room, I'd jam peace pipes into your mouths; but I actually wouldn't because I don't want either of you smoking pot. :P
Fit Man wrote:Earl, I apologize for acting too harshy. But I've lurked the forums before and have seen that Fat Man has never given anyone here an ounce of respect. So I decided to try to expose him for the hypocrite he is.
I understand how you feel.
Fit Man wrote:You are a smart man and seem to be the only civil person on the forum, and I respect you for that. I feel that I can have a normal conversation with you regarding anything.
I'm honored by your compliment. Thank you. That's a high compliment to pay anyone. But some of my "smarts" have been learned by making mistakes, and I've made more than my share. :)

By the way, I love your rendition of Samdaman's username as "Sadman." I thought that was funny. When Samdaman had long outlived his welcome, other members started calling him "Spammy" or "Samantha." :lol:

By the way, some of the currently active members have chosen to not participate in these latest heated exchanges. They're civil. (Of course, we don't have many currently active members, anyway. :P ) I also must say that HugeFan has exercised great restraint.

Well, I think I've jotted down my current thoughts concerning the latest exchange. So, for now ...

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Re: Am I Selfish?

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Earl wrote:
Fit Man wrote:Earl, I apologize for acting too harshy. But I've lurked the forums before and have seen that Fat Man has never given anyone here an ounce of respect. So I decided to try to expose him for the hypocrite he is.
I understand how you feel.
Fit Man wrote:You are a smart man and seem to be the only civil person on the forum, and I respect you for that. I feel that I can have a normal conversation with you regarding anything.
I'm honored by your compliment. Thank you. That's a high compliment to pay anyone. But some of my "smarts" have been learned by making mistakes, and I've made more than my share. :)

By the way, some of the currently active members have chosen to not participate in these latest heated exchanges. They're civil. (Of course, we don't have many currently active members, anyway. :P ) I also must say that HugeFan has exercised great restraint.
Good evening Earl:

OK, I have to call bullshit on Fit Shit for the following . . .
[b][color=#FF00FF]Fit Shit[/color][/b] wrote:Fat Man has never given anyone here an ounce of respect.
Have I ever, for example: been outright disrespectful of you?

I know you and I disagree about, evolution for example: but we still respect each others beliefs, and you know when I make references to "Christards" I'm NOT referring to ALL Christians, but only to those right-wing whack-jobs.

Have I ever been disrespectful toward I_like_1981?

Have I ever been disrespectful toward ChrisOH?

Have I ever been disrespectful toward HugeFanOfBadReligion?

No, of course not.

We have had some disagreements in the past, but we are anti-sports and we have never attacked each other during whatever disagreements we might have had.

So, Fit Shit is wrong when he says . . . . .
[b][color=#FF00FF]Fit Shit[/color][/b] wrote:Fat Man has never given anyone here an ounce of respect.
I respect you Earl, and I respect I_like_1981, and I respect HugeFanOfBadRelition, and I respect ChrisOH, and then there is some other forum members who haven't been here for long time, like Greencom and Rotten, who I miss seeing very much.

Yes, Recovering_Fan and I had a falling out for awhile, but we have patched thing up.

So, I have to call bullshit on Fit Shit because he says I disrespect everybody here.

No, I only disrespect moronic sports bores, jocks, PE coaches, and assholes like him!

Sorry, but I have no respect for such a worthless endeavor as sports.

I'm not the least bit impressed by fucking worthless drooling moronic slope-headed, slack-jawed, mouth-breathing, stooped-shouldered, knuckle-dragging baboon with shit-for-brains who chase balls.

I'm more impressed by someone who has knowledge of science, or who can create a work of art, or compose music, or something of that nature.

I don't give a fuck about ball chasers.

I can teach a dog to do as much!!!
Earl wrote:Fat Man, if I had been your father, I would have given my right arm to get you to a better school; and I would have raised Cain about the teachers who mistreated you. Most of your misfortune stemmed from the fact that your homelife wasn't what it should have been; and that's a gross understatement, to be sure. (Forgive me.) Believe me, I understand your anger and rage over the injustices you suffered.
Thank you Earl.

Yeah, what kind of schools one attends and the quality of education, it's pretty much a crap shoot.

A lot depend on where you live. Some states probably do have better schools.

My mother had even tried to see an attorney to fight for my right to get an education, but we couldn't afford an attorney.

We were not a rich family.

Yeah, some professional football player rapes somebody, and he's able to hire a shyster lawyer to get him off with just a slap on the wrist, and the victim gets penalized, and has to pay the court costs. Yeah! The second rape!

But if you're poor, you get treated like a criminal even when you have committed no crimes.

And Fit Shit says I'm a disgrace to humanity???

No, it's the USA, or rather the politicians who run this country, and our courts, and our social and economic system, and our educational system that has been going down the crapper for decades, that is a disgrace to humanity!

Sorry, but as far as I'm concerned, Fit Shit can just go crawl into a sewer, eat shit, and die!!!
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Re: Am I Selfish?

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Fat Man wrote: Have I ever, for example: been outright disrespectful of you?
*raises hand*
Earl wrote: By the way, some of the currently active members have chosen to not participate in these latest heated exchanges.
I gave up trying to discuss anything with Fat Man, no offense intended, but it's like talking to a brick wall. he only pinpoints some parts of the posts he needs to start talking about how religion is bad or how crap his life was, I know those problems existed and may exist even today, but many of those incidents like a teacher hitting a kid may still happen today but with little chance, and also, when it happened before reports should of have been made, a little visit to a doctor to see the injury caused could of have led to questions, and after a proper acussation was made, that teacher would have gotten his so deserved jail sentence. He never truly reads all the information I or any new member posts "unless he's brought his attention that he doesn't", just like it may happen with this post.
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