I'm back...again...
Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2012 12:47 pm
Been working a nightshift, just really out of it all the time, I keep forgetting to log in and say hi.
But to keep this post on topic for the forum it is being posted within, I'll start with a coworker who got online this morning to ask me how the support call volume was last night, I talked to him about technical support stats and numbers, and he of course interjects into the conversation, without solicitation...
"I woke to a surpise this morning. fell asleep last night during the football game. score was dal 17 sd 0. woke up, we lost 28-20"
Um, I don't give two fiddle f*cks? But no, because I respect this guy as a coworker, and respect his knowledge of the job that he does, I have to sit there and act like I care long enough to pretend to make him feel heard, so that I can direct the conversation back to work.
This is part of the problem with the sports attitude, is that you may actually otherwise respect a person you're around enough to try to humor things they say that are uninteresting. But no other topic of conversation is so expected of you to become immediately engaged in, without question, as sports is.
It's never socially acceptable to say "I'm not into sports", because that immediately categorizes you as some sort of disturbed social weirdo, unworthy of being spoken to. Oh, and crabby, the type that surely musn't like to have fun since he isn't 'into sports'.
But to keep this post on topic for the forum it is being posted within, I'll start with a coworker who got online this morning to ask me how the support call volume was last night, I talked to him about technical support stats and numbers, and he of course interjects into the conversation, without solicitation...
"I woke to a surpise this morning. fell asleep last night during the football game. score was dal 17 sd 0. woke up, we lost 28-20"
Um, I don't give two fiddle f*cks? But no, because I respect this guy as a coworker, and respect his knowledge of the job that he does, I have to sit there and act like I care long enough to pretend to make him feel heard, so that I can direct the conversation back to work.
This is part of the problem with the sports attitude, is that you may actually otherwise respect a person you're around enough to try to humor things they say that are uninteresting. But no other topic of conversation is so expected of you to become immediately engaged in, without question, as sports is.
It's never socially acceptable to say "I'm not into sports", because that immediately categorizes you as some sort of disturbed social weirdo, unworthy of being spoken to. Oh, and crabby, the type that surely musn't like to have fun since he isn't 'into sports'.